Life is so unexpected...

Today, i received a news that one of my students had passed away. Although i do not have much impression on how she look like, yet the feeling of loss is still there as she was my student. Therefore, we should treasure every seconds in life and also treasure every single person around us as we might not able to see her/him again.

Most people think that by trimming its branches, they will able to make a bonzai (japanese plant) look nice. To me, i believe in looking after its root instead as a healthy root will naturally create natural beauty to its branches. Instead of trimming from time to time, you should nurture it since young.

Thus, i believe this apply to life as well. Instead of being impatience and looking for quick success which will not last for long, we should concentrate on setting a strong foundation of our own. For example, why we need to worry about getting a gf/bf when we have not build a stable and good career of our own. I strongly believe that once we have build a career foundation, which should be our main priority at the moment, then a good soul partner will come to us. Once again, why we need to find when those good ones will come to us.

When someone choose others instead of you, you should not be too sad. It is either he/she is not good enough for you, which is a loss to them instead, or it is because the faith is not there between you all. Sometimes, love does not come along with faith. As you might love a person, but there is no faith for both of you to be together. Most importantly, build and maintain your foundation and therefore, you shall meet a better person then.