Life is so unexpected...

Today, i received a news that one of my students had passed away. Although i do not have much impression on how she look like, yet the feeling of loss is still there as she was my student. Therefore, we should treasure every seconds in life and also treasure every single person around us as we might not able to see her/him again.

Most people think that by trimming its branches, they will able to make a bonzai (japanese plant) look nice. To me, i believe in looking after its root instead as a healthy root will naturally create natural beauty to its branches. Instead of trimming from time to time, you should nurture it since young.

Thus, i believe this apply to life as well. Instead of being impatience and looking for quick success which will not last for long, we should concentrate on setting a strong foundation of our own. For example, why we need to worry about getting a gf/bf when we have not build a stable and good career of our own. I strongly believe that once we have build a career foundation, which should be our main priority at the moment, then a good soul partner will come to us. Once again, why we need to find when those good ones will come to us.

When someone choose others instead of you, you should not be too sad. It is either he/she is not good enough for you, which is a loss to them instead, or it is because the faith is not there between you all. Sometimes, love does not come along with faith. As you might love a person, but there is no faith for both of you to be together. Most importantly, build and maintain your foundation and therefore, you shall meet a better person then.

Another interesting life philosophy to share....

Live like an Iron... As long as you have the steam, heat and passion inside you, every obstacle in front can be smoothen...

Yourself is the best Iron to you. No wonder can become a better Iron than yourself. Therefore, you should learn on how to survive on yourself without keep on rely on another person.

No matter how big/small, light/heavy, pretty/ugly, as long it able to perform the function, it is still a Good Iron.

Responsibilities need courage.

Courage to admit own mistakes, courage to accept the consequences and reality. If want to blame on someone, one should blame on own self instead. Blame on own self that unable to forecast well and make the wrong decision.

Blaming on others only means reflect one trying to run away from responsibilities. Being responsible not only means explaining to own, but also to the rest of stakeholders.

No matter how worst is the situation, one should find the best to solve it or even end it. It is alright to fail in a business, but we should not fail being a human.

Being a human, you should have confidence and should not give up easily.